El Crispador i rock my world asked:


for example, what signs, if you are upset with something they are doing n a relationship, will actually listen and not take it personal and try to reason with you.

And not just get offended, and tune off

Elsie

anita asked:


Friends and family are always asking me for advice about their relationships, whether its about significant others or about someone else they may know. My children and their mates are really good at doing this, and they have told me for a long time that i should do something with my ability to be able to listen and give advice. I guess I’m finally listening to them. Any help will be greatly appreciated. Thank you.

Kelsey

Nessa asked:


hey. ok my name is Vanessa. i’ve been dating this guy for not to long but we been on and off for about a year and a half..so if you add up all the times we dated it would be a few months all together…we are in this kinda long distance thing so it’s hard to fix all the problems we have. i don’t know how to keep things like brand new…ya know?? i don’t want him to call and we just sit on the phone saying nothing all day..get it?? i don’t want him to get bored with me. and the weird thing is i had this dream twice about him cheating on me and i like never had a dream like that before..i don’t know what it means but it like makes me kinda nervous…does it mean something or is it just me not being confident in this relationship?????
i’m just confused. lol

Dylan

Kanji asked:


Hello All.
I have done alot of living, experienced my fair share of heartache and made it through to the other side. I have been played, abondoned, used by men, made about all the mistakes that you can make with a man, and now that I am a bit older and wiser, i would like to share advice with my fellow women out there. I feel that I can give the best advice, not because I am perfect and I have never made any mistakes, but because I have made those mistakes, I have been there and done that. I feel this puts me in a better place for understanding and sympathizing with other women, and I feel it gives me the wisdom to possibly prevent other women from being hurt or played. In fact I have even developed a very keen sense about those sorts of things and can spot them from a mile away. So, I want to help people. I feel this is what I have been put on earth to do. Does anyone know how I may get started with this? Thanks for your help!

Rylie

Madame Butter-Crumpet asked:


I get too deep in a relationship without trying at all. And then it is extremely difficult to get out of that relationship.

Alma

dear young me ! asked:


2 days ago i found out my GF maked out with another guy on a cruise, we broke up, of course i have feelings for her and she didnt even told me herself, i wanna go out with someone but the choices are, go out with a friend as real friends nothing more, but probably i wont have a good time knowing that i can be with my ex (as friends) and be having a better time since she’s all i look for emotionally and she is frikin hot, and then a i could go out with my ex (as friends) but then we still like each other a lot and we will end up making out and what else… when the point in all being to get her out of my mind… and dont tell me to go out with someone i like cause the one that i have are only physical no emotions, and this will sound all cheesy and shit but my heart still with her….

Lindsay

randomShitz asked:


so…me and my girl been together 2 years now… and she still doesnt trust me. She thinks im cheating all the time…but i never have, and dont plan to..but it gets old hearing it over and over. She gets extremely mad when i hang out with my friends cuz she hates all of them..but has no real friends her self. And the only time she hangs out with anyone is when i hang out with my friends…just to say she did something. Last week i was with my buddies…told her i am gonna have a couple beers and sleep there…just me and my guy friends chillin…she threw the biggest fit over it and said i need to find another girlfriend….
just to add i see her every single day, we kick it every day..and i kick it with my buddies maybe once a month…maybe

Elena

Mohican asked:


I have been involved with a man who is an alcoholic. He is a father of three beautiful girls and he owns his own construction business and he is 51 years old. I love him very much but his addiction is a huge problem. I am having trouble understanding the disease and I am always thinking it’s me when he becomes distant and shuts me out. I feel like I’m doing something wrong or I’m not good enough. Can anyone give me any insight on the behaviors and personality disorders of an alcoholic? Thanks for any help you can offer.

Brooklynn

simplesimon asked:


He has been hurt by his ex in the past..& I sometimes feel as tho I am trying to pick up the pieces of what is left of him. Is it possible for him to have a functional relationship?

Haylie

Mommyof3 asked:


I feel like it’s staged. First off, the people who know them say that he adores her but on the show it always appears as if they are fighting or having some problems. Last season it was Stacy the bar tender, but now she’s friends with them and was at their wedding? The new season preview shows her trying to rush to have children and him being all upset about it, but in real life-interviews he said that he couldn’t wait to start a family with her. It all seems very fake.

Kadence